She lives abroad and came to see me and my family with her H and kids recently. She told me so matter of factly - after she said that he was always so grumpy and irritable, I asked her if he hits her and she said yes.
She lives very far away from me and I have no idea when I will see her again. Her response to my reaction was so dreadfully typical: how much she loves him, how kind and generous he is, what a great lover he is. He demands sex OFTEN. I asked her what happens if she says no. She shrugged her shoulders and sort of smiled. Then she tried to convince me how much she loves him and how "hot" he is. Also, she said that she is XX years old - as if she should be grateful for his attention.
I am devastated. We live on opposite sides of the planet. What, if anything, can I do to help her? I want to tell her brother what her fucking arsehole of a husband is doing to her.
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My friend told me her husband hits her and abuses her sexually
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Alliwantisaroomsomewhere · 11/10/2012 12:43
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