I am in complete shock. Ex and I split in Feb, he got with someone new very quick (I believe he cheated). They were together for about 6 months, she dumped him.
He got back in touch with me once they split (he's sent the odd text whilst they were together but this one asking to meet), we both have ds' (not to one another) who are close and he asked if we could meet as his ds missed mine. I agreed. Since then, we have been meeting regularly, including on his birthday and his ds' birthday. He mentioned getting back together a few times, I said no as I wasn't going to just be the one he came back to. Nevertheless, I was starting to get feelings for him again.
I have just found out his ex has gone on maternity leave?!?!?!?! I text him congratulating him, he said "???" I told him I knew then he said she isn't allowing him to see the baby so didn't mention it. I'm in complete shock- she is about to give birth!! I have been so stupid allowing my ds to play with his- messing with both their heads!
But now, he's asking if I'm still ok for our plans tomorrow. I of course do not want to go, but I don't want him to know I hurt/shocked/angry. What do I say?! I am shaking.
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bepositive1989 · 09/10/2012 18:34
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