DH was abused by a 'father figure' (not his father!) for years from approx. 9 until he was 13-14. He was thoroughly groomed- even taken on holiday- and until a few years ago was even still in touch with this man. I have been quietly suggesting he go to the police for years.
When I fell pregnant again in January something in his head finally shifted and he went to the police. Now, after months of to-ing and fro-ing, they have called him and said there's nothing they can do. It seems as long as this man says "no, that didn't happen" that's that. DH even suspects, and told them, that this man was responsible for an assault on a young boy which was reported in the papers where the man lives (car and man matched description given) but I don't think they even looked into that.
I know they can't charge people willy nilly on just words but I feel so cheated for DH; it took a lot for him to sit and tell his story. Plus I suspect this vile man knows where we live.
Anyway, I just wanted to get it down.
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peeriebear · 08/10/2012 09:49
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