Anyone else's DP say this? It's getting right on my tits! I was talking about my DP about a recent appraisal at work and his response was, 'Well I could have said that about you!' That's one example that come to mind, but he often says that about things I tell him.
I know he thinks he's being supportive, and, well, he does know me incredibly well since we have been together some 7 years now, but how to I express how profoundly irritating it is? Sometimes I think he mistakes my annoyance with situations when I'm whinging about them for genuinely being surprised they occurred, if you know what I mean?
I hope I'm making sense. I find it irritating because I don't know, I just don't find it supportive? Does anyone else get this with their DP or family members? Can anyone help me with articulating it to talk it over with him?
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'I could have told you that'
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munkysea · 05/09/2012 20:50
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