I'm at my wits end I've always had a 'difficult' relationship with my mother and feel I have never been able to please her...there are times when I cannot stand her because she seems to push every button I have an make me feel like the worst daughter in the world...and then I feel so guilty about feeling like that about her.
I have tried to understand where I am going wrong but have obviously failed miserably as she is once again giving me the silent treatment after we rowed last week...and I really thought I'd done my best to understand why she was upset and empathise with her feelings. I've written below just a few of the things that she always brings up when we argue:
I'm always wrong and it's always my fault if we argue
I take offence at the slightest where offence is not meant and I am far too sensitive
If I disagree with her opinion then it's only to annoy her
I am always angry with her
We don't have a proper mother daughter relationship, I will do anything to avoid sharing my feelings with her
I obviously hate her
As I said at the start, I am getting to my wits end trying to understand how I can fix this
I don't even know why I'm posting this here or what I'm looking for in terms of advice
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Difficult relationship with my mother
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OooohShiny · 08/07/2012 20:46
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