My best friend's coming round tomorrow night for a girly night in because she's been having a tough time recently....
her dh has told her he doesn't love her anymore. They have a 2yr ds and a 10wk dd he say's he doesn't know whether to leave her or not, say's he needs 'his own space', spends money on himself like it's going out of fashion, goes out with 'mates' alot drinking Champagne and snorting coke. She is also suffering from PND (unsurprisingly)
She's obviously devastated and I know we'll be talking about it at length tomorrow, I don't want to be unsensitive but I think he's a turd, and feel she and the children would be better off without him. I know he's the father of her children and obviously thats important....
well basically I would like some advice on what to say to her. I don't let her know my feelings on it as I don't want to upset her, I'd have hoped she'd have figured out for herself by now
I'm fed up of seeing my BF unhappy when she should be so happy, her new baby is so gorgeous.
Urgh, just thought of something else which really upset me about it last week.....her new little dd shares their bed and one night she wiggled over to his side and he pushed her with force back over to bf's side swearing at the baby
He is a c**t
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BF's Idiot DH - What to say?
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Rodeo · 16/02/2006 22:18
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