OK, so apologies if this is a really stupid question. Or for any TMI in the following.
Met someone last night, we go back to a friends post pub. Bit silly I know, but was hugely attracted to him, and vice versa I think. We'd both had a fair bit to drink but neither of us (I thought) were hugely pissed. Ended up in bed together. Prior to this there'd been lots of kissing etc. All fine. Except that he couldn't get it up, at all. I tried, he tried; nothing doing. He blamed it on the drink. It really wasn't a big issue for me at the time, other things happened instead which were very enjoyable .
This morning he had an erection briefly but lost it when we were fooling around. Again really no biggie.
But I was thinking about it later and wondered if alcohol would really be too blame for both last night and this morning? I've had sex before with men who couldn't 'finish' due to drink/drugs, but never been with anyone who was unable to sustain an erection. The fact he couldn't get erect at all - and today lost it so quickly, made me wonder if there was an underlying issue? Or if it's just that he was more pissed than I realised?
We've been chatting today, and are going out next weekend, I like him a lot, but am a bit shit at spotting warning signals, not sure if this is one to concern myself over or not.
He's mid 20s by the way, so don't think it's down to age.
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Is alcohol likely to be the reason?
ninethreesix · 04/03/2012 22:07
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