Boyfriend going out "on the pull"?

[MuckyStudent]

On Friday night he went out "for a few" at 6.30pm and didn't get in until around 1.30am. Him and a single mate went to an area renown for people going out on the pull and as he left his facebook on tonight whilst he went for a shower I've learnt that they were talking to a couple of girls all night and that his mate has been texting one of them (although no mention of boyfriend texting anyone or getting close to anyone). Anyway I also noticed they've arranged to go out in June to a nearby city and stay over and his mate has said "it's full of women" which is why they're staying over.
I'm not over-reacting am I? I know there has been no evidence to suggest he's done anything wrong but going out with a single bloke, staying over places where "the wimim are" isn't really the actions of a committed boyfriend is it?

[LiarsWife]

Nope .. but then maybe he's just trying to help his pal meet someone???

You'd be best having a chat with him about it .. x

[squeakytoy]

June is a long way off.. it is only February.. how long have you been seeing this bloke?

[MuckyStudent]

2 years

[MuckyStudent]

Think is when his mate says "oh yeah we'll stay in leeds, it will be better cos it's full of women" wouldn't a normal attached bloke say something or am I expecting too much?
I can't imagine me going out and staying over with a single female friend cos it's "full of blokes"

[TooEasilyTempted]

Didn't you post about this last week?

How old are you both? No kids?

You're out of order for snooping thru his FB. But if he had something to hide he wouldn't be leaving his FB open for you to nose thru.

[PurplePidjin]

Do you trust him? I'd trust dp in those circumstances, but then he wouldn't put me there (I asked, and anyway it's not his kind of thing iyswim)

You either trust him and let him get on with it, or you turn into a jealous and controlling nag, or you split up.

[kissthepuppy]

It could be innocent (as mentioned earlier - his friend on the look out, but not him). If his behaviour has become different though, I would become suspicious - and to be honest, I would do a bit of snooping...

[ButteryBiscuitBase]

Don't act yet, if its innocent you could risk losing the trust and destroy the relationship anyway as he will be mad at you for snooping and doubting him

If its not innocent its too soon to act as you have no real evidence. He will know your onto him so will do more to cover his tracks which will make finding him out really difficult. This will then drive you crazy you will become a woman possessed turned detective!

Stay quiet for the moment but be vigilant for any signs and then start looking for evidence.

If he's gonna cheat he's gonna cheat. Confronting him now won't stop him, if he's a cheat the truth will come out and then I suggest you kick him out. Once a cheat ALWAYS a cheat.

Btw can you tell iv been cheated on!!!

Good luck.