I think this might have an obvious answer, but I'm naive when it comes to long-term relationships & DCs, so...
I'm in my mid-30s and have finally met a man I can see myself settling down with (as the name suggests - late developer here!). He is in his early 40s. We've been together nearly a year and are thinking of moving in together within the next couple of months.
I don't have much experience with children - no nieces/nephews/cousins. I am indifferent to the idea of having DCs of my own. In fact I've never really thought about it, because I wasn't in a long-term relationship. Now that I'm with a really good man, people are starting to ask those questions about having kids.
The relationship I have with my partner is really good - the best I've ever had. I feel like I waited a long time to have a good relationship (previous boyfriends have been bad choices). Friends/relatives are encouraging us to have DCs, and I don't know what to think. I am neutral about kids. Will having children make our relationship even better? I don't want to ruin a good thing, you know?
Oh god, I don't even know what I'm asking. Come & tell me if DCs made your good relationship even better. If they did! I know I should be old enough to know these things myself, but I'm naive and inexperienced.
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Has your relationship been improved by having children?
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latedeveloper7 · 16/02/2012 22:21
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