This may sound slightly odd but my DW doesnt like hates compliments.
Even when we first got together 10 years ago. She hated compliments. From simple 'wow- that's great' on exam results, to saying that it was a lovely meal to saying that she looked beautiful. She hates them.
She clams up when I give her compliments, when her parent's give her compliments, when her siblings give her compliments, when friends or colleagues give her compliments.
She has no problem giving them.
But now it is really getting me down, I find myself vetting what I will say to her because she will clam up and go stoney on me.
She doesn't have a self esteem issue- she is actually very comfortable within herself. So it doesn't really fit.
I have tried breaching the subject with her many times but it is always the same 'I don't do compliments'
It is getting me down.
Any thoughts/ideas/experiences?
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DW wont accept compliments - tired of vetting what I say.
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BeeHiveCity · 10/02/2012 22:10
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