ok - been with dh for 14 years, two dc's both at school.
I love him dearly but can't see myself staying in our marriage much longer - I don't know if this is just because of circumstance or if we've just got into a viscous cycle.
dh works crazy shifts - one weekend off a month and i seem to spend most evenings by myself on mn or when he is here he normally gets in about 9pm so by the time we've had dinner I'm exhausted and tend to just fall asleep as soon as we get into bed.
I work too in a pretty stressful job but am just feeling really lonely and its like we're living in parallel lives - we could just be housemates really.
sex is non-existant - i don't really ever feel like it (i think that I resent the amount of time he's at work and just can't get over this to want to feel intimate with him) he's given up initiating it as he's had enough of me telling him that I'm too tired.
I think the last time we had sex was at christmas.
I feel empty - like it wouldn't really make a difference if we seperated.
I know this is a tiny problem compared to some posters on here - when dh is here he is a loving father - does loads of cooking/housework etc - but i just feel like we're drifting apart and I'm almost scared to bring it up in case he agrees and then I just don't know where we'll go from there.
where do I go from here? I'm in tears just thinking about it all.
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Don't think I'm in love with DH anymore - please help me work this through - don't know what to do
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helpmeoutwiththisplease · 10/02/2012 20:58
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