Me and OH met on a daring website 3 years ago.
Recently it came to light he had another email address from years ago, he didn't tell me as he no longer uses it.
Well I log into it ( he knows I'm doing this although he seems nervous ) and there are lots of "updates" from a dating site. Not the one we met on, zoosk which is part of Facebook.
Now, we had broken up for a month in may and all the emails were after may to date, none had been opened. He says he used it one when we were broken up, mainly out of boredom. Well this doesn't sound good as I'm sure he's been bored whilst we've been together at times!
I go off to work, still banging on about it to be honest. When exactly did you use it when we were broken up, how many times etc etc.
Yesterday it came to me that his log in details to that are probably the same as Facebook so I log in.
Nothing really there, no messages sent or received as he's not a paying member however he has "won" coins for logging in on the 12th may ( we was broken
Up) and 3rd December ( the day we were arguing about it all day )
I ask him again and again I'd he's ever used it whilst weve been together, no no no.
Until he finally admitted he logged in on the 3rd december merely to look for the date that he's gone on whilst we was broken up as I was questioning him so much.
Really? Why would you go onto a dating site whilst we are arguing about it??i
I can see he hasn't logged back in after the 3rd dec though so maybe he is telling the truth?
I'm just convinced that he's looked on it when we've been together.
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Should I believe him? Re : dating bloody websites
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