This may sound a bit strange, and I've name changed as I'm quite embarrassed about it , but I have this overwhelming fear that DP is going to die. He drives for an hour to work every week day, it's not a dangerous drive and he is a careful driver but I get so worried that he'll crash that I make him text me when he gets there every day to make sure he's safe, and if he doesn't get in touch or he's home late I start to panic and think he's been in a crash.
I was the same with my last partner too, my DS's dad, and I always worried that something had happened to him on the way home (he didn't drive so it isn't connected to a fear of driving), and if I couldn't get in touch with him I'd immediately fear the worst.
My father died when I was a baby and my mother had a string of boyfriends afterwards usually lasting a couple of years that I'd get attached to before she would split up with them and would always get drunk and tell me how awful it was being left as a single parent, I think this has obviously had an affect on me as now I'm convinced that my partner is going to die but I don't know how to stop worrying about it. Even just reading this back sounds really daft sorry, but I'm worried about it ruining my relationship as my partner gets a dozen frantic calls and texts from me if he's a bit late or too busy with work to reply, he just says I need to stop worrying but I don't know how.
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Help me stop being so paranoid
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HonestImNotATroll · 21/12/2011 16:21
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