Does anyone else fee like this?
I thought to be a good wife I was meant to cook, clean, work full time and look after my man.
How wrong I was.
I thought if I did what he wanted he would love me and it would make him happy.
Instead he treated me was emotionally and financially abusive and I lost my life, passion and career.
A few years down the line and lots of hard work on our marridge things are so much better.
I no longer do everything to make him happy and he goes out of his way to show my love, respect and make it possible for me to do the things I like, as in look after DC's whilst I do my hobbies.
I love my DH and want to spend the rest of my life with him.
He works hard and is a good father to our kids.
However I am bored.
He doesn't want to be romantic like get dressed up, have dates, go dancing, or have any friends himself.
I need to feel pasionate about life, live it to the fullest.
And he doesnt.
Sometimes I wonder if I should have an affair to fulfil my passion for life :(
(I have not had an affair nor do I know anyone to have one with)
What do I do?
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Lovemy2babies · 18/12/2011 20:29
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