I have been with my OH for nearly 9 years and came off birth control 18 months ago in preparation to have a baby. While we have only been actively trying since April I expected something to have happened by now seeing as we haven't used protection for so long.
In the last couple of months we have been rowing more and more and during one of our arguments in anger I told him I didn't want a baby and he followed me into another room and saw me take a birth control pill.
Tonight we had another row and he said he thinks I haven't got pregnant because I have been secretly taking the pill which is not true but due to the fact we have been arguing a lot lately I have gone off the idea of having a baby. He is really upset by this and said that if we don't have a baby next year then it is over. He has now gone to bed and I am sitting downstairs in tears.
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Unable to conceive..now he wants to leave me after 9 years
itsohsoquiet · 12/11/2011 23:57
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