After reading nearlysprings post I wondered if anyone could shed any light on this bloke. I now have a partner (who is not said bloke). We met at uni 3 years ago, he is 8 years older than me and almost instantly we hit off a very sparky friendship. Lots of flirting etc but nothing more as he has a girlfriend. Went on a very boozy night out and ended up sleeping with him (please don't flame me, i was single at the time).
Flirting continued and a few odd texts here and there but no more action. Christmas he walks me home and tells me how amazing i am, he would rather be with me etc and went in for the kiss. I walked away, didn't feel the same and didn't want to compound my mixed emotions.
Saw him almost daily for the past 2 years at uni then went away for the summer and went on a night out. Everyone else went home and it was just the two of us, at which point he says he needs to speak to me. Said he'd possibly cheated on his girlfriend again and was so drunk he couldn't remember. I asked why he was telling me this and he replied 'well sleeping with you was different but this time i needed to tell someone'. He then proceeded to hold my hand for the rest of the night, and we danced a lot.
Don't really know what to do or say with him. We get on fantastically well, I go through phases of thinking he's a complete arse through to enjoying his company and the 'relationship' we have.
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Is he just a twat sent to confuse me?
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PenelopePitstops · 04/09/2011 17:14
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