Have posted before about dh and problems with inlaws. Sorry cant do links but other thread was about how we have spent 6 of the last 9 years at xmas with inlaws.
I am soooooooooo fed up of it-we also spend every sunday with them and have done for the last 12 years-so pre-dc.
This year I want to put my foot down and have xmas in our own home-which we have never done-with just dh,myself and dcs. Inlaws are welcome to visit on xmas before dinner or come round on boxing day.
Tonight I tried to instigate another conversation with dh about this. He refuses point blank to listen. Tries to make out I am unreasonable when I eventually lose my temper. Emotionally blackmails me with oh but my parents will spend xmas alone-they wont as is bil turn to go plus they have each other!
Dh argues for a living so is very hard to have a reasonable conversation with him without feeling browbeaten.
However I am determined that this year I need to grow a back bone. Please help me do so mnetters!
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Help-dh being an arse again!
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pink4ever · 04/09/2011 01:29
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