My friend broke up with her (IMO) lovely fiance last year after she met someone through work. Her new partner moved in and refused to tell ANYONE they were together and didn't pay rent for eight months so he could save to buy himself a flat.
My friend was happy with this, they even went on holiday together and she was told not to put the photos on facebook. Obviously alarm bells were ringing for her friends but she wouldn't pressure him to tell his family etc.
He has now broken up with her and moved out (but left most of his stuff behind) and is now playing games with her IMO. Obviously from an outsider's perspective she needs to cut all ties etc but she keeps meeting up with him etc and it is getting annoying giving her advice that she isn't ready to take.
Do I keep listening for hours/sympathising etc or do I do a tough love approach? I tried the latter and we had a row about it.
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Do you keep supporting a friend after a break-up when you don't agree with their actions?
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reddaisy · 01/09/2011 14:49
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