Just a brief one really ... do exH ever stop being arsey?
Now divorced (after 23 years together/15 married) - Ex had an affair and now lives with GF (living the life of a single teenager, lol), however, at every opportunity he still has to put digs in - he has been soooooo inflexible with everything and actually made our divorce/house sale very stressful by being a d**k and questioning EVERYTHING!!! If I ask about flexibility with the DC he constantly quotes how many times I've been out, (I rarely ask for any flexibility now although as every mother would do, flex for him so the DC are not suffering). I think I have been completely tolerant of the situation (after the initial devastation) and have not been derogatory to him, have kept my emails courteous and impersonnel ... this all makes him worse!
I can actually laugh at his patheticness now 95% of the time (took a long time), however, the thought that this will go on and on and on ... I dread to think how he will be the first time he sees me with another man ... I'm sure he'll come out with some corkers! I've type this whilst in a happy mood, however, some days it really makes me down and the thought that a dig from him can have such an intense effect on me.
He left 14 months ago, divorced for 2 ... family house sale currently going through ...
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Do ExH's ever stop being arsey?
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TC123 · 05/07/2011 12:08
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