Ten months ago, I invited my sister's DD, who is six months older than my DD, to come to stay with us for four days/nights this July. We agreed that my family would go and pick my niece up, staying for the weekend, and then bring her back home for four nights and my sister would come and pick her up. We settled on the dates and I bought quite complicated and expensive train tickets well in advance, as well as reserving a hotel for our weekend with my sister (DD was invited to stay with my sister's family).
We validated our plans many steps of the way with my sister and all seemed fine. Then, two days before we were due to travel to my sister, she called me and basically back tracked on the whole thing, saying that her DD was anxious/her family was busy/she would have to come to fetch her DD early.
I said that, if her DD was not feeling up to staying, no problem and we would come up for the weekend and return without her.
So we went. However, my sister's DD was dying to come to stay with us. The problem was not with her, but with my sister, who had decided that she couldn't bear to let her DD go away for a few nights (not even one).
I feel very hurt and angry with my sister for letting my DD down, us down (we went to a lot of expense and I spent a great deal of time organising this trip) and, rather than admit she had a problem, try to put a smokescreen and say her DD wasn't up to it?
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WhatDoYouThinkOfThis · 04/07/2011 01:18
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