i am seperating from semi-abusive fffsh and true to form he is being a fffs about it and wont leave the house. I know I can get him out legally but it will take time. Living with him makes me want to explode. His presence in the house is so domineering and I feel like I am shrunken. All I want to do is be peaceful, have a nice peaceful house and look after and love my dds. From when I wake up in the morning I get more and more tense until this time when I want to explode. I feel like Im sinking farther and farther away from my dcs. My house is a shit-hole and I cant get on top of it. There is so much legal/financial/practical stuff to organise and sort out. I am desperate to sleep. People knock at the door and ring the phone and I wish they would all fuck off and leave me alone. I have a few friends in similar positions but instead of finding support and comfort from each other- I dont want to hear it. Ive had a friend here all day in an awful state about her husband and I found it so draining. I did my best to be the friend I know I should be but really I dont care and I just wanted her to gooooo awaaaaaaay.
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I dont think I can do it and I just want everyone to fuck off
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bejeezus · 23/05/2011 21:22
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