Fantasize about saying this to dh:
- you are never affectionate or loving towards me
- I find it impossible to talk about anything that really matters to me regarding
our relationship as you cut me short / start shouting / turn things back on me
- we are not equals in this relationship
- you are short tempered
- we never go out just the two of us
- I don't feel special or especially liked
- I am 42 and feel that no man is ever going to find me attractive again, least of all you......
- you are so much nicer to our kids than you are to me
SO PLEASE CAN WE SPLIT UP ?????
This is what I would really like to do but we have three kids 5, 7 and 9 so that changes everything. I'm just fed up with not being able to speak my mind or discuss things honestly and openly with him. I would so like to feel relaxed and happy - be able to have a laugh and flirt that would be lovely. I feel that we need to re-negotiate almost everything about our relationship but don't know how to do this??? He is totally not the counselling type.