Me and my best mate have very recently decided to tell one another how we've felt about each other for a long while (). The timing is awful but I'm really glad to have it in the open and we've decided to tenatively see if we can make a go of it.
However, we're both kinda weirded out by the idea of having sex! He's been my best friend for 6 years, I've felt more for him since I got to know him back then and told him so when we were in our late teens but obviously it didn't go anywhere then.
Now it has we've had a good few chats but we can't get over the idea that sex with your best friend is odd! It's not a step we are even considering taking for a while yet as getting our head aruond the idea that there is more is anough for now, but how am I supposed to start thinking about it differently? Every time the thought pops into my head I think "But it's X!" because it's the attitude I've developed towards it over the years! Not only that, but he's never been the same 'type' of guy I've dated in the past looks wise (it's sounds awful I know! He has very prominent, very 'manly' facial features and I've always been attracted to men with softer and feminine features) so that's not helping me get my head around the idea!
You may be able to tell that I'm very excited about this but very nervous, I've had a permenant blush on my face because of him, I feel like a frigging teenager again
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Relationship with best friend, attitude to sex?
confuseddotcodotuk · 09/05/2011 10:52
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