Have been doing so well at distancing myself emotionally. Got phone calls down to every other day instead of every day and kind of switch off when she talks and talks about herself and never asks about me, dh, ds or any aspect of our lives.
Anyway, today is 2 years since my beloved Dad died. I was so close to him and miss him so much. I called her to see how she was, and how her day had been. 26 mins of her talking about how hard her day had been, telling me who had remembered and sent her cards, and who hadn't remembered and how unsupportive they are.
No once did she ask me about how I have felt today So I never told her that I got lovely cards and roses from dh and ds, I never told her my best friend gave me some beautiful tulips, that MIL sent me a card and that my SIL called to see how I was. She doesn't know I had to turn Adele off the radio on the way to work as I was trying hard to remain positive and Adele makes me cry at the best of times....does she think I just went about my day not remembering? I am really baffled as to what goes through her head.
I know she is incapable of this, and normally I can deal with it. But today?
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So when you have a narc Mother how do you accept the lack of concern about you?
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DrNortherner · 21/04/2011 19:43
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