Ok, well, my sister warned me about rebound relationships. I applied all to myself, not realising that I was probably a rebound relationship to the guy I was seeing.
My friend is also seeing someone and I've warned her to be careful as he sounds similar to the guy I was seeing.
So - what are the warning signs?
Once the guy is over his previous relationship - is there hope for the rebound girl/woman? Or should you just chalk it up to experience?
So - signs for me (which I see as clearly 'rebound now.
Full on intense with me from the beginning. If you think it's too good, it probably is!
Separated (although told me as good as 'divorced'). I was also separated (will be divorced in 2 weeks) and felt this was ok, but will stay clear of separated men in future.
Critical of his ex. Brought her up quite a lot.
Emailing to tell me he was feeling 'flat' and me trying to make him feel better.
Overly concerned for his children (I admired the concern but I think it's a bit much when he cancels a date as he is worried that his 9 year old would want him to pop round to his ex's house to 'tuck him in' or give him a 'hug' goodnight).
Sigh.
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Rebound relationships - signs
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ginnyjeans · 14/03/2011 20:49
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