i,ve been 'dating' my toy boy for 6weeks now and its great,really good fun,exciting in bed,no strings attached and his work hrs mean that we can spend time together when kids not here-they dont and wont(for a good while anyway if it lasts)know about him..
i feel like i,m a much happier mummy to them and i,m being very careful to keep up my own interests etc...
problem is hes very young emotionally and i think hes been very badly hurt in past and has trust issues....
he says one thing but does another...he doesnt want any romantic hearts and flowers talk which tbh suits me but hes very attentive when we out or in and is almost chasing me if you know what i mean-i let him do most of the initial contact/txting-today he ran up the stairs in gym to talk to me as i was on the way to a class...
but i am finding it hard getting the balance of letting him know that i,m into him without overstepping things..if i do by mistake he stops txting but then the next day he makes up some silly reason to contact me...
i,m very very happy to take things slow,am not expecting any sort of committiment from him(except to know hes going to turn up as arranged and not leave me standing) but am i fooling myself?? i ,m trying not to get attached but know that i am...
should i walk away now while its still such good fun or leave it a bit longer and risk getting hurt??
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tinkerbell41 · 15/02/2011 19:44
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