Ok im a regular but namechanger for this one incase he reads it.
My DH for the last couple of months has started to do this thing where either we are having an argument and he will raise his voice first, but then tell me not to shout (when im not) or he will say something that will annoy me (on purpose I think), then when i react in any way, he will tell me to calm down, then when I try say I am calm, he just tells me louder to stay calm (because obviouly by this point im getting riled up as he is telling me im not calm when I am)
What is his mission? Does he even know he does it? How can I make him stop?
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Why does my DH drive me nuts?
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anon121 · 31/01/2011 09:37
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