I am in the very early days of a new relationship. He came over today (neither can do evenings easily due to work) All kids at school/college/work bar one.
She was supposed to be out for the day but came home early and we were asleep in bed
Now, how do I handle this? I have only had one relationship since my divorce 12 years ago and that was 6 years ago. My DD is 20. In the old relationship, he never stayed over when they were at home, so they have never had to deal with a man around the house or the realisation that I am a woman
So, I said we were snogging and cold so went for a cuddle upstairs but she isn't stupid. Do I mention it if she does? Do I continue with the lie of innocence or be honest and say I'm in a sexual relationship??
I am very close to children and have discussed their sexlife (the ones that have had them) with ease. They know I am now seeing this man but it feels weird to let them know or confirm I'm now shagging. I had already carefully bought up how she would feel if he stayed here sat night as she is the only one home this weekend. She was ok with it ... as long as we are quiet -
Feel like a naughty teenager
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scaredoflove · 01/12/2010 17:39
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