Almost 2 years ago I discovered my husband's (relatively short)
affair, at the time he thought he was in love and wanted to leave with her. We talked it out and he decided to stay. However , during those talks he told me that before that affair(which had become physical) he'd had a previous one,mainly online, but had met up with her twice and had lasted for 5 years !
I have read many books recommended and we 've both attended Relationship councilling (both together and seperately) and I feel happy in our current situation.
However, I still have regular angry outbursts, where I hauraunge my husband over the affairs and can't or won't let up. I always feel guilty after these outbursts because he has bent over backwards in the past two years to make our marriage work.
Our children know I'm upset but don't know why.
I wish I could control them. Any suggestions please .
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Help me move on, still angry.
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Roisinniamh · 22/11/2010 18:36
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