Argh I've booked it, now help me go through with it!!

[wallababy]

Just booked a naughty night away with my DH!!
Used a hotel recommended by someone on here, bought some naughty underwear, rope ties and tingly lube and bought the monogamy game.
He knows we are away for the night but not what we are going to be doing!!
We are both quite reserved and boring in the bedroom (although not in real life) so hoping this will give us a bit of fun, just hoping I don't lose my nerve and it ends up being yet another boring night away with a wander down to the local pub (I'm hoping to not even leave the room!!)
Anyone done this, how do I keep going through with it??
What if he is offended in a "what is wrong with what we do" kind of way?
Any tips??

[wallababy]

No? Only me then?
Oh god I feel silly

[tesrocks]

I have done this a couple of times with DH, top tip is to take a camera to record some pictures, I was surprised what a turn on it was especially as the light was v flattering - just have fun - also its good to know that DH looks at the pictures and still finds me attractive.

Champers also helps a great deal and knee high boots - or maybe thats just my DH!

[Sarsaparilllla]

Sounds like fun!!

I would put on the underwear under your normal clothes when you're on your way and maybe give him a hint/flash of what you're wearing so he's got an idea of what to expect!?

[wallababy]

I am packing a couple of bottles of champers for Dutch courage that is for sure, I am sooooo nervous!!
Anyone played monogamy before?

[BertieBotts]

Take baby wipes in case the tingly lube doesn't work for you.

And if it turns out you are sensitive to the lube then don't be tempted to try the wine for the same purpose - it BURNS!

Although it is quite funny going "Aaaaaargh get me some water NOW!" and watching your DP run around in a panic seeming to have forgotten what a tap looks like. And it wears off relatively quickly and you get an interesting warm feeling after the burnyness has gone away.

I hope you enjoy your weekend though, in seriousness :)

[JodiesMummy]

What is the monogamy game?

[Vagabond]

If you're both so reserved, what's with the rope ties and tingly lube?

Just go with the flow, have a few drinks and lead him to the hotel room with kisses galore. I wouldn't do anything wildly out of character - just go with it and have fun.

You don't have to be wildly adventurous to please your man - just the fact that you've booked the night, taken control and want to have awesome sex with him should certainly be enough.

Have FUN!