My partner and I are in the process of separating. He says that when he moves he doesn't want to have DS spend the night or have scheduled time with him for a few months. He also wants me to be financially independent which means I have to get a lodger and work black at who knows what since I don't have a work permit.
I think if he is going to put the load of childcare on me, he should pay my basic living expenses. Am I wrong?
Off to put DS to bed - will check responses later. Thanks all.
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is this fair?
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Leka · 17/11/2010 18:46
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