I feel like a bitch to be honest. I want more sex than DH does and we never do it unless he wants too. I never say no and years ago when I wasn't that bothered we would start and then I would be happy about doing it, but of course dh has to want to or nothing happens. He is willing sometimes to play with me so I get mine but sometimes I feel like he is doing it to shut me up though he assures me he isn't. I feel sometimes like I am almost begging and feel rejected when he doesn't want to. He has a very stressful job and home life and is knackered at the moment but this is not a rare occurance. He can't do it when he has had a drink, he can't do it when stressed and I just don't understand that. if a woman doesn't really want sex she can still do it, obviously men can't.
He is my best friend in the world and if we never had it again I wouldn't leave him but omg he is gorgeous and I want to shag him. I feel like I am a bad person for wanting sex and I know I am probably unreasonable as if I said no he wouldn't even ask again.
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phipps · 29/10/2010 11:22
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