It made me think.
Do families often ignore / blame the victim / scapegoat?
Lol's storyline has made me feel not alone, the way her family has closed ranks to make her the outsider, the difficult one, the one who is overreacting, the one who is 'mad.'
I genuinely blamed myself for so long... My stepdad 'tried it on,' I complained about it and was manipulated into being the mad / bad one.
Obviously I have had drug and mental health problems as a teenager / in my twenties and this just confirms the idea for my mother / family that I am remembering it all wrong, I am a crazed drug addict who's got it all wrong. My stepdad was an alcoholic so I don't know what he remembers doing / saying.
I feel a bit less 'evil stepdaughter' now...
Just wanted to vent, don't know what the point is of posting really
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Anyone seen This Is England, re: families reaction to abuse?
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nemofish · 17/09/2010 22:23
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