Me and H have been having problems for about 4 months. He wasn't sure if he still loved me after 17 years of marriage and 2 dc. He wouldn't make a decision so I eventually told him he either worked at it or moved out, he decided to move out. He couldn't go straight away but we decided to tell dc so they could get used to idea. He eventually moved out to his mums at weekend but rang last saying he wanted to come home to me and dc, he said he knew he wanted to be with us and wanted to work at our marriage. I've been waiting for months for him to say this but I had reservations over how much he wanted to be with me, was it just dc he was coming back for? I let him back but still cannot shake off feeling that he doesn't want to be with me as he seems very distant. Have I just made a huge mistake? Should I have said he needed more thinking time? To make thinks worse ds is overjoyed he is back but dd is upset. If he stays he needs to stay for good, if he goes then he goes for good.
Is it just too early to tell?
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Have I just made the biggest mistake of my life?
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Singlediva · 31/08/2010 22:59
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