i have been lurking for weeks now and find the advice you give to others so helpful so thought i would pour my heart and soul out for some help too
Bit of history first.......
We have been married for 5 years and have 2 ds sons age 8 and 3. Last year We decided to move 200 miles from any friends and family that we have to a complete strange place as dh job was relocating to that area, it was a joint discussion and me and dh used to be so solid that i thought i could do it with him at my side.
Well over a year on and we are not as solid as i thought, i struggled to settle at first but have put myself out there and made new friends, got a job, joined toddler groups etc....... but i miss my family so much, every time we say goodbye i sob my heart out and physically feel quite sick, it has been like this since the day we moved. My dh says he WILL NEVER move back to the town the i grew to love and have so many connections with ( he also has friends and family there)
we used to have a house where people where popping in and out and generally doing things with family and friends, where now nothing, no one has been in my house for over 2 months and i find it quite sad.
dh first used to get annoyed with me when i got so upset and now he laughs..... it upset me that he cant (or dont want to) see how hurt i actually feel.
As i was saying goodbye to my sister and Neices and the weekend he just looked at me and said " This is going to finish us...." I never thought that a house move could tear us apart, we dont laugh no more, we dont sleep together no more, if he is not stroppy with me he has the hump with the kids......
I know tonight we have to have the talk and i just dont know what to say.........
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ijustdont · 31/08/2010 17:07
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