What can I do about this??
I love and fancy dp, often think "Oooh yes I'd like to have sex" BUT when it comes down to it I find it too hard to relax. I feel like a million thoughts/images are flashing through my mind and I can't relax enough to get into sex. It's totally a mental thing, sometimes the physical niceness of the sensations will sort of win through iyswim and I will start to get into it and can then reach climax but other times I just get into a vicious cycle of thinking "Oh dear I'm not relaxed, can't stop thinking these random other thoughts, can't relax etc etc"
Dp understands to some extent, he's certainly not putting pressure on me to have sex, but I think he struggles with why I can seem "up for it" and then not actually manage to get very aroused.
I'm not sure what to do to help.
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LaDiDaDi · 26/07/2010 08:17
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