Ok so I realise this is a problem entirely of my own making, and I'm looking for some perspective. We've been in our current home for about a year and a half and we're slowly decorating, figuring out how best to use rooms etc. One of the things we're trying to achieve is for DH to have a dedicated home studio/music room (he's a music teacher/musician so this would be the equivalent of an office for him). It's worth mentioning at this point that he is a drummer - so the space needs to be pretty soundproof, wherever it is.
We have a living room with an adjoining sunroom and last year I suggested he make the sunroom his studio space. Up until then he'd been planning to build himself a studio in the double garage - but I reasoned that it might be better for him to be within the house, it could be made reasonably soundproof and is on a side of the house which is away from neighbours, plus it would be useful for the DDs too and he'd be able to use it straight away, whereas building a studio could take AGES and we couldn't really afford to do a proper conversion job and I wanted all his shit contained asap as it was all over the house.
So now it's a few months on and I miss the sunroom. The light in there is great most of the day, there's a great view of the side garden and park next door, it's warm in the spring/summer and I can envisage how I could turn it into a lovely extra living space. At the moment it's piled high with drums, amps, guitars, keyboards and various other crapola which DH loves to accumulate.
AIBU to ask him to reconsider the studio garage idea? We are soon to come into a bit of money so I think we could afford to do a proper conversion, which would mean he'd have garage space, studio space and we'd all enjoy a sunroom sitting area. But a) he's probably going to despair because it was my idea for him to use it in the first place and he (understandably) hates it when I go back and forward on ideas like this and b) he really doesn't enjoy discussing home plans at the moment at all because I think he gets a bit overwhelmed with the scale of the task - we have a large-ish house and a steady stream of jobs coming at us all the time!
How can I bring it up tactfully? Should I bring it up at all?? Can I make him think it's his idea (this tactic usually works)?!
Thanks for any opinions advice and for reading this far - it's turned out a longer post than I intended!
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BaryMerry · 07/04/2016 13:11
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