Hi, I'm not sure what I'm asking here really, just wondered if anyone had any views.
DS is an August baby, so I deferred his school start till January as I felt he was too young in September. He started 4 weeks ago.
It's a tiny village school, and he already knows the other 9 children in reception. However, he only plays with 2 of them (both girls, both August children), as he says the other kids are "big boys".
So far he likes school, is happy to go there, no tears at the gate, seems to have lots of fun. BUT his behaviour is appalling afterwards. He is SO short-tempered, flies off the handle at the tiniest thing, is clearly exhausted. At bedtime he apologises, saying it's because he's so stressed. I've been walking on eggshells since he started, it's like living with a volcano!
This week he's had an ear infection, and been off sick. And my lovely happy sweet little boy is back. Yesterday he said he wished he was still 3 so he wouldn't have to go to school. He said he liked school but it was very hard work, because they have to "sit quietly and do writing".
I think they're trying to get him to catch up with the rest of the class (who started in Sept) because he seems to be getting so many books to read and words to learn. He loves books and stories, but gets visibly anxious if I get his school reading book out. I don't put any pressure on him at all, constantly telling him that it doesn't matter.
I know it's early days. Maybe I should just sit tight and give it more time? It's just that seeing how he's been this week has really brought home to me how much school is affecting him - he's like a different child.
Should I take him out of school till Sept, and go back then for year 1? Should I have a chat with teacher about the pressure he's feeling? Should I just have him at home for regular "sick days"?
Any thoughts?
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Coping with reception - any thoughts?
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Rebecca41 · 04/02/2010 13:29
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