For a while now, ds1 (aged 6, in yr 1) has been having trouble with a boy in his class - the boy has been doing things like pushing ds1 out of the line waiting to go into class, punching him in the stomach, pushing him off the balance beam in the playground, splashing him with water from the toilets, taking ds1's glasses and hiding them, taking ds1's hat off and throwing it in a puddle.
After the most recent incident today (boy took ds1's glasses yet again and hid them), ds1 and the boy were both told to try and stay away from each other.
I have raised my concerns with ds1's teacher many, many times and each time am told that they are aware of the situation and are dealing with it. She has never once approached me to tell me of the problems ds1 is having, but when I ask her, always confirms that ds1 has told me the truth and hasn't exaggerated. She once said that the other boy was having a "particularly bad day" and that he and ds1 just don't get on (she made me feel that it was partly ds1's fault for the way he reacts to this boy's behaviour). From what ds1 tells me, the usual punishment is for the boy to miss 5 minutes of play or to go and see the head - these "punishments" obviously aren't proving much of a deterrent.
so what do I do know? Do I speak to the teacher more forcefully? Do I go and talk to the boy's mum? or the head?
I feel that I'm letting ds1 down
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how do I handle this? (sorry, a bit long)
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MonkeyBear · 03/06/2009 22:11
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