DS gets extremely anxious and tearful about show-and-tell. He tends towards shyness/self-consciousness around big groups of people, and says that he really doesn't like having to talk to so many people. I can understand that. I try reassuring him that his classmates like him (which I believe they do) and would be interested in what he has to say - to no avail.
Public speaking scares the hell out of a lot of adults! But at school, DS hasn't got the choices an adult has, to conquer/avoid/accept his fears, so what do I do? Encourage him to give it a try but tell him that, if he feels really uncomfortable, he doesn't have to do it? Or should he be made to do it, so as to push him through his fear, and avoid undermining his teacher and discouraging other kids from giving it a go?
He was terrified. And he is only four, FFS. Any ideas?
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What to do about DS (4) feeling so terrified of show-and-tell
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Scrumplet · 25/02/2009 10:23
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