Mainly me, rather than dd...
She is 7, bright, bit quirky, chatty but waffly, not cool, quite young for her age. Despite being bright, she always spends the first term in the middle ability groups until the teacher notices her, when she is put into the top group. She never gets parts in plays/productions or wins anything. She is usually one of the last in the class to get the teachers award. She is one of the 'invisible' children, who behaves, achieves, doesn't cause trouble nor shines.
She is mostly fine with it, in fact, only occasionally grumbling that it is never her that gets to do stuff. Me? It makes me feel so sad for her. Now, I know I am not going to be able to change this, unless she went to a school with mch smaller class sizes. But how do I get over my sense of 'it's not fair!' on her?
(she does do extra-curricular stuff and is quite a confident child, just not a stand out one, so I can't do more to 'help' her iykwim)
Any thoughts?
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'Overlooked' children - how to deal with it?
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NovelGazing · 20/11/2008 12:20
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