DD is the very youngest in her Year 2 class. She has never had any problems at school, her Reception and Y1 teachers said she was a bit of a chatterbox, but no problem, polite, kind, very bright, friendly etc, they used to like having her in their class.
This year, her teacher has shouted at her a lot for talking, even when it is not her talking, it is other people on her table. She takes her time over her work and is very precise and neat. It seems her new teacher favours speed over good work so doesn't like how slow she is. He constantly keeps her behind at break time to finish it and is very disaproving. I had planned on raising this at parents evening next month, but now need to raise it sooner. I would prefer her to bring unfinished work home so that I can supervise it, see why it is taking her so long, and I would rather she plays with her friends while she is at school instead of being stuck in, completely on her own at 6 in an empty library with no adults around her.
Today, her teacher has constantly told her off in front of her class (this has never happened to her before), he told her off for talking when she was completely silent and said to her in front of the whole class "I'm so very disappointed in you that I am going to speak to your mummy about you at home time today". He didn't, and when I called the school he had gone home.
What do I say to him? How do I raise my concerns (this is a new problem, she hasn't done it before, surely you can see her work is neater than her peers that is why it takes her so long, that he shouldn't be talking to her in the way that he does, particularly not in front of her class etc)
How do I do this without going in and shouting, crying and ruining it all by pointing the finger of blame at him.
I am terribly temperamental at the moment, I found out on friday that my dad is dying and I can't even type this without crying, how am I going to be when I have to do it face to face?
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What to say to DD's YR2 teacher (without shouting!)
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hockeypuck · 30/09/2008 16:48
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