dd has been having problems settling into yr 1. (I did have another thread earlier). She also had problems in reception, but started getting going in the last term - then came the summer hols, and now she's gone backwards again. Basically her problem is poor concentration, and lack of confidence. She's gone right back to level 1 (Ginn) with reading, and in school when she's asked to do anything (eg copying down words), she goes 'away with the fairies' (as her teacher puts it) and does nothing until she's badgered. The teacher ends up sitting her on her own until she does it. Teacher showed me one of her books yesterday, where dd had written a full page of words during the lesson - in joined up writing too - the teacher was . dd had to be sat on her own to do it though. I had no idea either that dd could do that much writing at all!! Getting her to do it here is like pulling teeth, she would rather play, is unimpressed with the sit down and work aspect of yr 1. She is immature for age and summer birthday.
Anyway, in a nutshell her teacher says I should use 'tough love' and train her into doing it, make her focus and repeat any instructions back to me. At the time I thought this sounded OK, sounds fairly sensible. I am too lax at home and tend to let dd play.
she gets a fair bit of homework too... apart from reading this week we have english writing, maths worksheet and also spellings to learn. argh! not sure what to make of it all. dd is my only one, I am sure the teacher thinks I am clueless!!
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saw dd's teacher yesterday, at the time I thought it was fine, but now not sure?
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paddingtonbear1 · 20/09/2008 09:06
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