Hi ,
I am having a major problem with my sons school . He is a normal average 6 year old , not special needs etc mischievous and boisterous like a 6 year old should be I was called in about a month ago by his form teacher about a playground incident where my sons friend hit another boy, and they believe my son had told him to do that . She said that my sons friend was 'thick ' and my son is manipulative and is the main cause of all the trouble making him do things which are not responsible . . She put the bullying label on him and insinuated that things would go further if there was no change . She said she had a complaint from the boy's mother and couldn't have this . My son got lunch time detention . Anyway , since then I have been summoned twice more regarding quite low level stuff . The teacher does not think my child is agressive or malicious but when he plays other kids sometimes get hurt and that is not ' responsible ' ( school motto ) and she will have to keep in lunch time detentions until he is more responsible . I was called in yet again on Friday and told to pick my son immediately after an 'incident' - apparently my son had dragged another boy on the floor after this boy had kicked him off a bench .
He was then carted off to headteacher who said ito him if he is anymore trouble he is out , and he will be expelled . All this week he has had no mid morning or lunch time breaks . He is miserable . They are now to me threatening to expel him .
Part of the problem is my son who says he is ' scared ' of them and does not explain the whole story or sequence of events . He never snitches on anyone or is a cry baby and now seems to becoming a scapegoat for anything that happens as he does not defend himself , also his partner in crime seems to get away with just about everything and nothing much has happened to him - not threatened with being expelled.
Really stressed out at the whole school exclusion at the moment I am getting the impression they are really singling him out and if he even so much as pushes someone in the corridor they are going to try and exclude him .
Any advice from anyone who knows about primary school exclusions would be greatly valued and appreciated.
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Primary school exclusion age 6
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Debbie73 · 04/05/2016 22:52
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