We love a particular indie not far from us and though I don't care for the idea of assessing 3 year olds, as it's a selective school we do need to put DD up for the assessment.
From what it's possible to tell at her age (just 3) she seems very bright, she picks things up fast, asks lots and lots of very good and left-field questions, she is interested hugely in the world around her and is terrifically verbal.
But with ratio of applicants to places somewhere around 5 to 1, I don't know if she will neccessarily get through any assessment! Surely some of it is just luck of the draw at a certain point?
Aaaaaanyway, my general question is what, if anything at all, we should do to help maximise her chances of doing well at assessment. I have this horrible fear that, despite the advice of the school, there might be a lot of tutoring going on - maybe not actual tutors being hired for 3 year olds but certainly a good deal of prep work done at home in terms of reading/writing etc.
I guess we have sort of been planning to just wing it and hope that DD's natural brightness shines through but is this just wildly unrealistic?!
Though she is starting (just since turning 3 actually) to show more interest in the letters etc she is learning at nursery, she certainly isn't the sort of child to happily sit down and let us 'educate' her even if we wanted to. Since she has shown more interest in letters, I do take every passing opportunity I can to chuck in a bit of "oooh, look, there's the letter b, remember your grandad's name starts with that' etc, and she really gets a kick out of this, but this is as close as I think we'll get to 'teaching' her anything ourselves.
Do parents drill their kids with letters, counting etc for these sorts of assessments, and are we going to put DD at a big disadvantage if we don't? Or can these types of schools really see past a lot of preparation/ even the dreaded formal Tutoring? At age 3, when they assess them...?
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selective indie 4+ assessment... I don't need to TUTOR DD, do I???!!
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DuchessOfWeaseltown · 24/02/2016 22:11
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