Is this really A Thing??!
I ask because I have found a lovely independent school that I would really like DD to attend when she starts Reception. It is selective, which instinctively I am not sure about because I never know how much you can really tell at the age of 3 and a half (!) but having visited the school and talked to staff and parents of children currently there, I have had many of my fears allayed about it being a very pushy and competitive school once you are in. I found it to be warm, and nurturing, and I just really liked it. Seems a chance of a great start to education.
HOWEVER at the recent open day, prospective parents were discussing tutoring... for reception age entry... I double-checked they were not just talking about 7+ entry but nope, reception it was!!
This has freaked me out a little bit because I had been assuming that my DD, when she is assessed, will either get a place or not get a place but that either way it would be on the basis of any ability she has (that they are able to spot at that age). But now I am concerned that she may not stand a chance because she will be measured against children whose parents have had them tutored...
fwiw DD does seem extremely bright (I do know everyone thinks this!!) - DH's family are all terrifyingly smart so it wouldn't be astonishing if DD were an academic child also but are good teachers really able to tell, at this stage, whether the children they are assessing have natural ability or have been tutored...?
On a related note, should I just move out of SW London where this is all happening, and find a part of the country where these sorts of things don't happen??!
I should add that hell would freeze over before I tutored my 3yo, so am not asking if I should be doing this, am just asking if any educators out there have a view on whether it is possible to spot this?
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Tutoring for Reception entry???!!!!
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DuchessOfWeaseltown · 30/04/2015 21:03
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