Hi all,
New to mums net and would appreciate some advice.
I also work at the school my child attends just for more information.
This week my child attended weekly forest school with the teacher and assistant. My child was asked by the assistant to change into her jeans, my child said she didn't want to and the assistant got angry and started shouting in my child's face, I am aware of this as the other children went home and told their parents. It resulted in the other children (all aged 7) standing in between the assistant and my child and them shouting stop shouting at her for the assistant to stop. My child was already in floods of tears. The reason she didn't want to put her jeans on was because she had forgot her belt but didn't get chance to tell the assistant as she didn't give her a moment.
A letter was sent home to myself about my child's 'bad' behaviour, along with another parent getting a letter for another incident, in the park we discussed our letters and I stated that I was not happy and would book an appointment.
Annoyed that this assistant (who has already been spiteful to my child in the past) I booked a meeting with the head teacher. At the meeting the head teacher gave me a verbal warning for discussing children outside school (the assistant who shouted at my child had overheard mine and my friends conversation about our children and told the head). So I was verbally warned and have also been told there may be further action against me. I was told that she doesn't employ 'shouty' members of staff so all the year 2 children must be lying. And that the reason my child was refusing to put her jeans on was because she was trying to 'show off to the boys as she's that way inclined!' SHE IS 7!
Amongst many others words disclosed my child started crying again and the head teacher looked across and told her to 'dry them fake tears up!'
I'm utterly disgusted that this member of staff has been not only undisciplined for her behaviour but supported and also been told my child is the problem.
I am now in the process of finding a new job along with moving my child schools as I find this totally unacceptable.
My question to all you mums is: WHERE CAN I TAKE IT FROM HERE? I want to take it to the top but I am unsure on who to contact in the first place.
Many Thanks
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Abusive teacher and unsupportive head teacher
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jodieedge · 11/07/2014 10:25
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