I'm wondering what others experiences are of primary school?
My dd is in reception. She's an outgoing and bright girl, previously described as 'very, very clever, one of life's leaders' by her nursery teacher. Since starting school though, she's become increasingly withdrawn. Tearful, clinging to me at drop off, very upset about small things. She's had the hood ripped from her coat in the playground, three head injuries in separate incidents in one week etc somethpimes she comes out of school crying so much she can't cup even speak and hyperventilating. She never gets any certificates etc even though other children the class have had two since the start of the year. I pulled the teacher up about it and she just said 'she'll get one'. Basically, I feel they're just not interested in her.
I'm no stranger this school, my DS is in yr 4. He is a shy boy and has ASD. Dd was also assessed and is NT. He's statemented and has a lovely TA. Given that I knew the school I thought dd would florish. But she hasn't. Over the Easter hols she drew a picture of herself in the playground and of other children near her entitled 'they hate me'
The school itself is a high achieving school, very unbending in its attitude - they are always right even when they're wrong.
Obviously I've spoken to the teacher about what's been going on, several times, she's just looked at me blankly. I've spoken to the head teacher who said they would try to get to the bottom of what going on but nothing happened.
I've since heard from other children in the class that there is some type of unpleasant behaviour directed at dd. Dd has also said this but school denied it so I believed them - I feel awful now.
Anyway, not wanting to wait while the schools attitude crushed her completely, I contacted the LEA and have secured a place for her at a nearby school. I told her current school what I was doing and arranged for her to have a look at it today. When I collected dd from the current school her teacher, barely spoke to me, just shoving her through the door saying 'I think she has everything' and walked off? I was going to try to explain my concerns again but I didn't get the chance.
In any event the new school was delightful so I'm hopeful. But is her current schools attitude typical? I've only got experience of this school so I don't have any type of comparison to make ......
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Peppapigisnotmyname · 29/04/2014 16:27
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