just read the thread about the first week at school,and feel very sad as it all seemed to have gone well for most,but my dd has hated it. My gut feeling is that she isn't ready emotionally,certainly not for full time anyway.She is four and a quarter.
Trouble is that there is a complicated history,DD1 was very happy in reception,but was so unhappy in year one that she was diagnosed with severe anxiety and had to be taken out of school .We have home educated for the past nine months. I felt she was ready to try again,so we chose a different school,and she has started there in year two with her little sister in reception.Both girls have been helped by having each other there.DD1 is doing well and had a good week,but is definitely shored up by having dd2 there as well (they are very very close). The head isn't at all flexible and wants them both full time asap,even though the ed-psych has suggested a gentle intro.She won't agree to Dd2 being part time for a couple of terms,which I think would help her adjust. Am really worried about having another sad little girl,last year was hideously stressful for the whole family and has left a mark on DD2 who did lose her sister for a while as she was too unhappy to even play.
How long is usual to "settle in"? DD1 was so happy it wasn't an issue until the terrible time in year one,when we were advised that she would settle and she just got into a terrible state,I wish we'd taken her out earlier. I don't want to panic though,as maybe this is normal for week one? She did until one each day but was too tired and slightly off colour yesterday.She is saying that she is bored and that it isn't fun,and is generally not herself,crying herself to sleep and very very clingy. I feel terrible!
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How long do you leave it before re-thinking (reception)?
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hellymelly · 10/09/2011 23:22
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