I know I have to speak to the school, but just looking for some support whilst I wait for the teacher to call me as I am beside myself.
Last year DD had trouble with another girl in her class. These problems included verbal abuse and pinching/ hitting. DD was not the only child to experience these problems, but was the most consistent recipient. DD's teacher (also head of department) took our need to discuss this very badly, we went from a Christmas report where DD was a happy, positive girl who was a pleasure to teach to in Feb being told DD was a negative glass half empty kind of girl. We had various meetings in which we were told that DD's strong sense of right and wrong, her need to support her friends when they were victims and constantly telling the staff when an incident had occurred were all part of the problem . We spoke to DD as the school asked us to about all of this - though I am not certain that they are right.
Going into year 3 the year has doubled inside and split into two classes and DD is not in the same class, however, they join together for PE etc. I thought this would help to resolve the problem. Wednesday, the first day of term in PE this other girl allegedly made a bee line for DD, knocked her to the floor, hit her and had to be removed by the teachers .
DD was very tired, but also unhappy on Wednesday night - she did not mention this incident. Another child has told their parent who has told me, hence me saying allegedly. This is typical of the kind of thing that happened last year- so I do feel there is probably a fair amount of truth in the story. I know my DD is not perfect and may have been partially complicit in the incident, but I really don't think she is the instigator.
I think DD now believes that there is no point telling us as we can't make it better . Where do I go now apart from removing DD from a school which both she and I love?
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Ahhh, I can't believe it's still happening
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Lizcat · 09/09/2011 12:00
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